Escorts!
An escort is someone who agrees to either accompany a client to a social event or provide entertainment in exchange for money. Sexual actions are not a part of this transaction. If the escort and client choose to take part in sexual activities for pleasure, that’s up to them. The second it’s for monetary payment, it becomes illegal. Unfortunately, this country is behind and prostitution is still illegal as we discussed in last week’s blog.
I was an escort for a weekend and didn’t know until I got there!
I never sat down and thought about escorting. I never planned on it and knew absolutely nothing about it. I took a trip and figured out I was escorting about half way through. It was a crazy feeling when I actually came to my senses and realized what I was doing. I didn’t have a problem with it, though. I had the best time!
How did I not know? I ask myself that same question all the time. I wanted to be around wealthy individuals to learn and experience the lifestyle of being insanely rich. I didn’t even consider the fact that I was escorting someone there. I thought I was hanging out with tons of rich people. I was right, but wrong.
This was a very relaxed escorting job. I was still someone’s date and was treated that way, but there was an unspoken agreement of what was happening.
The Story:
He was a customer at the club who brought his clients in for business meetings or friends in to relax for the evening. He was always very respectful.
I saw him in the club a few times and one day he mentioned he was attending a wedding in Charleston the next day for the weekend and didn’t have a date. I told him I would go with him without evening thinking it through: I didn’t really know this person, I’ve never been to Charleston to make sure I was safe, and just what the hell. I was twenty-one years old at this time and wanted to experience life and didn’t mind taking risks. I packed my bag when I got home that night and went to his house the next day to head out of town.
This was probably one of my favorite adventures from my stripper life and one of the first real times I experienced money, like a lot of money. His friends were a group of men that included a popular cocaine dealer, a guy that would borrow money and rack up cards cause he was secretly broke but tried to keep up, the son of a very wealthy club owner, and my date, a businessman. These were the guys with some good money, but the real money was in their father’s circle. The fathers were all business men that are multi millionaires.
Every man at the wedding (guests and family of the bride and groom) hired sex workers from Miami and all over to escort them for the weekend. Even the dad of the groom had a sex worker there for him.
All of the hired women were wearing very expensive outfits, carrying Louis Vuitton purses and wearing red bottom shoes. Even the guys were wearing LV shoes. Meanwhile, I’m wearing a $40 dress I bought from Windsor with a coat and $20 shoes, but hey, I looked really nice.
Attempting to fit into this group felt so natural. I didn’t care how they were making their money. I just knew I wanted a piece of it. I wanted the lifestyle. I ate the food, engaged in conversation, and finally spoke with the group of multi millionaires. I didn’t hesitate or get nervous. I was fascinated. I listened to every business conversation that I could, I asked a few questions and really focused. I was instantly motivated to one day live this life.
We partied for a few days non stop then went home. I made really good money and most importantly, I had tons of business advice from very wealthy people. I even saw the drug dealer the next weekend at the club and he spent hundreds of dollars on me. It was great! I definitely wouldn’t mind escorting again, but maybe next time I’ll plan it out and know what I’m signing up for!
The Cam Business
Camming is when someone is hired to perform for clients using a WebCam or online. These are usually sexual favors or sexual requests.
I found an amazing blog on tumblr that answered a lot of my questions about camming and the beginning steps to take if you wanted to start. It covers a lot of safety tips, how to use social media in a safe way, camming vocabulary and how the payments work! This blog is called CamGirl 101 – shit to do first!
I do not have much experience or knowledge on this industry but have many friends who are cam girls! Reach out to me and I’ll connect you to the right people if you have further questions or are wanting to join this industry.
Stripping!
Ayyy! This is my home. Strippers are my favorite type of people!
Yes, I’m a little bias.
The stripping industry took a HUGE hit during covid. Clubs closed for a long time leaving all entertainers jobless. Some small clubs ended up closing for good. Thankfully, the main North Carolina strip clubs were able to open back up and strippers went back to work. It wasn’t the same though, due to masks being worn and the alcohol limitations.
Some clubs are not requiring masks to be worn at all and are selling alcohol all night until 2am. Other clubs have very strict rules with covid such as requiring masks to be worn and blocking off customers from getting close to the dancers on the stages. This means money has gone way down for those dancers.
I drive an hour to work from where I live three nights a week because the money is so much better with less covid rules. I am vaccinated so it helps me, but it’s not the safest option for me covid wise. Ya girl gotta get paid though!
The art of stripping has changed throughout the generations, but the clubs have stayed the same for the most part. There’s bigger and crazier VIP rooms, such as showers and hot tubs. Management is also more attentive and keep you very safe depending on the club you are working in.
Crazyyyy story!
I worked last Saturday when the club was extremely packed and no one was wearing a mask. People were standing around because there was nowhere to walk or sit down.
I was sitting in a VIP bottle service booth by the ATM. Two guys started arguing at the ATM and a girl ran up and started punching one of the guys. The guy turned around and started punching the girl in her face over and over again. It was so scary!
Management ran over and dragged them out of the club and called the cops. At the same time, more people started fighting until the ENTIRE club was in a brawl. Everyone was falling and breaking the tables, bottles were broken everywhere, management was in the middle of the fight, and the dancers were trying to jump over people and run through the fight to go hide in the locker room. The DJ even shut the music off to go help management.
I went to help a friend get into the locker room when this guy fell on his back and broke the table right in front of me. Another man got on top of him and shoved his thumps into this guy’s eye sockets. He was pushing them so far in that it looked like this man didn’t have any eyeballs. It was terrifying and disgusting.
A few weeks prior there was a shooting at another club in North Carolina, so we were all worried it would turn into a shooting. There are no windows in a strip club and only one exit door with a fire exit all the way in the back that customers don’t see.
Somehow, I was able to still make $1,400 that night because we stayed open after the fight and everyone had money to spend!
Sex work is real work!!
It’s never a boring time as a sex worker, no matter the industry! We all work extremely hard to build a life for ourselves. It is never an easy job by any means. Sex workers deserve to be paid accordingly and to be respected!
STRIPPED 